In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into nine of the most common myths about the swinging lifestyle. From the idea that swingers are just “sex-obsessed commitment-phobes” to the belief that every event is one giant orgy, the hosts pull back the velvet curtain and reveal what really happens when vampires come out to play. With humor, honesty, and a few cheeky double takes, they bust misconceptions that scare off the curious and confuse the vanillas. Whether you’re a newbie, considering the lifestyle, or just love a good myth-busting session, this episode proves that swinging isn’t all about sex—it’s about connection, communication, and maybe just a little bit of delicious mischief.
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(00:00:00) Swingers and baby oil
(00:02:05) Myth One: Swingers are just sex obsessed people who can’t commit
(00:03:45) Maybe we’re just more open about sex
(00:05:54) We commit to exploring our sexuality
(00:08:52) We can see why vanillas believe this myth
(00:10:32) Myth Two: Swinging is just cheating with permission
(00:14:26) Myth Three: Swinger events are just wild sex orgies
(00:17:04) The image vs the reality
(00:20:56) Playroom etiquette and orgies
(00:22:50) Myth Four: Once you swing your relationship is doomed
(00:24:43) You can try the lifestyle and later change your mind
(00:26:41) The lifestyle can mean different things to different people
(00:28:59) Myth Five: Women are pressured into the lifestyle to please their husbands
(00:31:42) Men may be more likely to bring the topic up
(00:34:52) It gave the women permission to explore the idea
(00:37:25) Success in the lifestyle is all about your resources
(00:39:47) Myth Six: Swingers will hit on you anywhere
(00:41:11) Every swinger needs a ‘how we met’ cover story
(00:45:48) How vanillas react when they find out you’re swingers
(00:46:23) Myth Seven: Swinging is only for couples
(00:47:57) Myth Eight: Swingers are never jealous or insecure
(00:51:36) What we’re thinking as we look around in a group of swingers
(00:53:36) Missed opportunities occur with lack of communication
(00:54:32) Why this misconception may exist
(00:55:12) Myth Nine: The lifestyle is all about sex
(00:57:41) If it’s not all about sex, what is it about?
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